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#150802.01
Q:
Hi !
I am so lonely I
want to just disappear. I can't think of anything but running away.
Can you help me ?
My son must have
contacted you. Since then he has been relocated to his Dad's house.
I'm not sure that it's the best thing but it was all I could think of.
He's never had his father and I think after 15 years it's time. Write back
and keep me company will you? I'm having a difficult time with this.
Slayedback. Thanks again!
A:
Dear
Slayedback,
I don't know where to start and where can I help you.
What you should do is to sit down and try harder, think harder of what do
you want to do with your life. Many other single mothers feel the
same way that you do every single day. They wake up and feel at
lost. Many of them make mistake and they now learn to deal with it
the best way they know how. Why would you want to run away from your
problem? That will not help you from solving the problem. Don't try to
avoid it. Life can be hard and very difficult for all of us at time.
It's how we are going to cope with it is important. If every time,
we make a mistake, we run away, will that help us to be better? No. Each
time we face a challenge in life, we try to avoid it by running away from
it, would that make us happier? No, no, & no!
The only time we can grow to be better is to learn from our problems.
People all have their own problems. Think harder, it's already
happened, where should we go from here. Reorganize your life by
reaching out to other people. Talk to someone, listen to the right
people, seek for help, cope with it, but don't run away from it.
s there a counselor in your area at the
Social Services department? I'm sure there is. Looking for the
SUPPORT group for women in your area. Pay a visit to the church where you
can find peace... Remember tomorrow will always be better than today... It
will be brighter depends on how much do you want it.
It
must be hard for you to see your son leaving you after all these years. I
would assumed that he leaved with you for that long. Watching him
moving in with his father. Like you mentioned, you thought that was
the best choice that you could think of at the time you made that
decision. You tried the best way that you know how to raise your son
and tried hard to do what is best for him. All I hope is that this will work out for
your son. At the age of 15 and he's never leave with his father before...
Things can get hard on him as well. I hope that you will be there for
your son to support & love him through this. If you think you are going
through a tough time right now. Your son is going through the same
thing. Making a big change like this in his life, it can be dramatic and
so I hope that your son father and you will try the best to make it work
for your son best interests.
Things will get better for you and so you have to believe in yourself &
believe that everything will be alright. Remember that your son always
need your support, caring & love more than anything. Show him that you
are always there for him and I'm sure he will love you the same way.
Be optimistic & take good care of
yourself. Your son needs you. Don't ever forget that.
Take care
of yourself & best wishes to you.
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