Single By Chance,
Mothers By Choice: How Women Are Choosing Parenthood Without
Marriage and Creating the New American Family
Rosanna Hertz,
M.A. & Ph.D.
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A remarkable number of women today are
taking the daunting step of having children outside of
marriage. In Single By
Chance,
Mothers By Choice: How Women Are Choosing Parenthood Without
Marriage and Creating the New American Family,
Rosanna Hertz offers the first full-scale account of this
fast-growing phenomenon, revealing why these middle class
women took this unorthodox path and how they have managed to
make single parenthood work for them.
Hertz interviewed 65
women--ranging from physicians and financial analysts to
social workers, teachers, and secretaries--women who speak
candidly about how they manage their lives and families as
single mothers. What Hertz discovers are not ideologues but
reluctant revolutionaries, women who--whether straight or
gay--struggle to conform to the conventional definitions of
mother, child, and family. Having tossed out the rulebook in
order to become mothers, they nonetheless adhere to
time-honored rules about child-rearing. As they tell their
stories, they shed light on their paths to motherhood,
describing how they summoned up the courage to pursue their
dream, how they broke the news to parents, siblings,
friends, and co-workers, how they went about buying sperm
from fertility banks or adopting children of different
races. They recount how their personal and social histories
intersected to enable them to pursue their dream of motherhood, and how they navigate daily
life. What does it mean to be 'single' in terms of romance
and parenting? How do women juggle earning a paycheck with
parenting? What creative ways have women devised to shore up
these families? How do they incorporate men into their
child-centered families? This book provides concrete,
informative answers to all these questions.
A unique window on the future of
the family, Single By Chance,
Mothers By Choice offers a gold mine of
insight and reassurance for any woman contemplating this
rewarding if unconventional step.
REVIEWS:
"Single by Chance, Mothers
by Choice takes us on a thought-provoking journey with several single
women facing the challenge of how to become a mother without a spouse. This
is required reading for any single woman in her thirties who is concerned
about the ticking of her biological clock." -- Jane Mattes, L.C.S.W.,
Founder and Director, Single Mothers by Choice
"In this important book,
Rosanna Hertz examines the lives of adult women who have chosen to become
single mothers. Too often studies of this kind offer a snapshot of a moment
in time, but here Dr. Hertz gives us a movie--a sifting, changing and
evolving portrait that takes us from the difficult moment of decision to the
present, from anxious new mothers wondering whether they could do it, to
women and their children who have written a different kind of family
narrative." -- Lillian B. Rubin, Ph.D, author of The Man With the
Beautiful Voice and Worlds of Pain
"In this page-turner of a
book Rosanna Hertz follows the lives of middle-class single women who choose
to become mothers without husbands or partners. Through vivid portraits and
interviews, the romantic ideals and day-to-day complexities of single
parenting come alive--all carefully portrayed within an historical and
sociological context. This is a notable contribution to our understanding of
how changing norms, changing technology, and changing laws are creating new
family dynamics in modern America." -- Cynthia Fuchs Epstein, President,
American Sociological Association
"Single mothers have been in
the cross-hairs ever since Dan Quayle attacked TV's 'Murphy Brown' for
'mocking fatherhood' by having a child without being married. But Rosanna
Hertz's fascinating in-depth study shows that the former Vice President was
wrong. Today's Murphy Browns--middle-class, self-supporting single mothers
by choice--are not trying to score ideological points. Rather, their
commitment to motherhood survives the fading of their hopes for marriage.
This is an important book that debunks the myths and stereotypes of a family
type that is here to stay." -- Arlene Skolnick, Ph.D., co-author of
Family in Transition
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Hardcover: 304 pages
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Publisher: Oxford
University Press, USA
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Language: English
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ISBN: 0195179900
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Product Dimensions:
9.3 x 6.4 x 1.1 inches
Rosanna Hertz is Luella LaMer
Professor of Sociology and Women’s Studies and Chair of the
Women’s Studies
Department at Wellesley College. Rosanna
Hertz is also the author of the widely acclaimed
More Equal than Others: Women and Men in Dual-Career
Marriages (University of California Press.) This work
has received scholarly attention in sociology, psychology,
economics and women's studies. Her edited and co-edited
books include
Studying Elites Using Qualitative Methods (Sage),
Reflexivity and Voice (Sage),
Qualitative Sociology as Everyday Life (Sage),
Our Studies, Ourselves: Sociologists’ Lives and Work
(Oxford University Press) and
Working Families: The Transformation of the American Home
(University of California Press).
She received her BA at Brandeis
University in Sociology and Philosophy and the M.A. and Ph.D. in Sociology
from Northwestern
University. In addition she completed a two-year post-doctoral fellowship in
the Department of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School.
She has been quoted in such
publications as The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Money Magazine,
Glamour, Redbook, Cosmopolitan, Newsweek, The Los Angeles Times, The Chicago
Tribune, USA Today, and The Boston Globe. She appears frequently in the
broadcast media commenting on social problems for local news specials.