Dating and the
way you think
By
Devlyn Steele - Life
Coach Advice
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You
have decided that it’s time to get out there and perhaps connect
with someone special. Since it’s not always easy finding a
concentrated group of individuals with the same objectives, you have
decided to enter the different and exciting world of online dating.
Well, good for you! Trying a new approach is always a good idea
because new patterns tend to result in different outcomes. It is
also exciting because online dating will increase your opportunities
to date and meet new people. However, opportunities alone will not
produce the results you are looking for. In order to achieve new
results in your life, you have to change the way you’re thinking.
One
of the scientific laws of energy is the Law of Attraction that
states: “Energy is attracted to energy of a similar frequency.” How
this applies to you is simply this: You will manifest into your life
that which you are thinking. It might sound mystical and strange,
but it is very true and scientific.
There is also this saying: “We become what we think.” When you
were born, your brain contained over 100 billion cells. Imagine
that! Granted, these cells were somewhat nebulous and had yet to
develop any real structure or pattern for your thoughts.
Over time, you developed synopses that became the road map to your
thoughts resulting from environmental exposure. Everything you have
seen and experienced has shaped and defined the patterns of your
thoughts. These thoughts drive the engine of your actions.
When we fail, we fail largely due to our own self-limiting
thoughts.
×
The dates you have
been on lately have been disastrous, so you think: “Dating is such a
waste of time.”
×
You haven’t been on
a date in a while, and you conclude:
“I must be undesirable.”
×
You have been in
failed relationships in the past, which leads you to surmise:
“Something must be wrong with me because I can’t make a relationship
work!”
Can
you see how harboring these thoughts would prevent you from
developing a successful relationship? Well, if you feel this way,
you need to cultivate an entirely different, more positive thinking
pattern. If you think dating is a waste of time then guess what? It
will be. If you think you are undesirable then you will approach
dating without confidence and once again fulfill these thoughts by
your own behavior. Finally, if you think you are doomed because you
have failed in the past, then surely we are all doomed.
Get
actively involved in changing how you are thinking. Start believing
in yourself and having fun dating. Take this new mental approach
and you will see your dating life change. The way to achieve a
change in your thinking patterns is to use empowering affirmations.
Say
to yourself, “Dating is not a waste of time. I am desirable and I
can develop the relationship I want.” Use this affirmation out loud
three times in a row several times a day and watch your attitude and
confidence change.
Also, start smiling. After all, there is much to smile about. You
are about to have a sensational time online, especially now that you
are going to modify how you think about yourself and dating.
About
Author:
As a Life-Coach Devlyn has made helping people find
ways to improve their lives his personal mission and passion. He is a public
consultant, a private counselor, an author and creator of Tools To Life. He has
hosted his own radio shows called “Tools To Life” and “Love beat” and has been a
guest on over 150 various shows. You can read his articles and advice all over
the Internet. Devlyn has often been referred to as “America's Leading
Life-Coach.”
Devlyn's Mission:
There is something I want you to know. I 100% believe in your ability to
create the life you want. In order to get new results, you have to have the
desire, be willing to take action and have a roadmap to get where you want.
What I have set out to do is provide for you if you have the desire and are
willing to take action a roadmap that is easy fun and will get you the
results you want.
About Tools To Life
Developed by Life Coach Devlyn Steele, Tools To Life is a revolution in
self- development, a 77-day program in which thousands have implemented
successful changes in their lives. Devlyn Steele is a public consultant, a
private counselor, a radio host and an author. He has hosted his own radio show,
"Tools To Life" and has been a guest on over 150 various shows. For more
information, visit:
www.lifecoachadvice.com.
