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Techniques of an Identity Thief

Shiva Brent Sharma, who is serving a two- to four-year prison term, describes the techniques he used as an online identity thief.

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Madlynn is Kid of the Month

The Milk Gap



The Times's Jodi Kantor looks at the class divide for nursing mothers in the workplace.

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Visits Don't Always Lead to Adoption



Programs that allow children available for adoption to visit American families often lead to happily-ever-after, but sometimes end painfully.

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Taking Prescriptions on the Road



It is not required to carry copies of your prescriptions with you when you travel, but business travel columnist Joe Sharkey says it might not be a bad idea.

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Single Moms - find here resources on financial aid, scholarships, help with basic needs, food, prescription drugs, health care, housing, legal info, and much more...


The Genius of Your Inner Wisdom

 

contributed by Jennifer Snyder

Stop everything you’re doing for a moment…

 

Erase all of those racing thoughts and fragmented to-do lists from your mind.

 

Take a nice, deep breath...and another.

 

Feel your heart rate slowing down.

 

Now, whisper to yourself, “What do I most need in this moment?”

 

Feel your excitement and hopefulness rise at the prospect that you’re finally focusing on your own needs. The notion almost brings goose bumps to your skin, doesn’t it?

 

“What do I most need in this moment?”

 

Wait a minute... don’t allow your mind to race ahead, or give you seventeen reasons why you can’t take time for whatever answer might be coming forth.

 

You can take time... perhaps you must take time.

 

Several years ago I heard best-selling author, Jennifer Louden, ask just this question.

 

“What do you most need in this moment?”

 

I considered this a fascinating query and turned to my list endearingly labeled “Fun Projects”. Disappointingly, while the activities looked entertaining for someone wanting to do something, none of them resonated with me in that moment.

 

Shortly thereafter, the question was long forgotten.

 

Fast-forward to the middle of last month. Life was a whirlwind, my nerves were unraveling, and my birthday was approaching.

 

Traditionally, I don’t work on my birthday and began to contemplate celebratory activities. I could travel to Los Angeles but even the thought of jumping on a plane felt frenzied and exhausting. I had been longing for the east coast surf but my husband and I were planning a weekend there together. A trip to Washington, DC sounded like fun but I want to wait to see the baby panda at the National Zoo.

 

Why do these ideas leave me feeling even more tired, I wondered.

 

“Oh, what do I most need in this moment?” I begged to know.

 

And, in a flash, my heart answered me…

 

I need a leisurely bath with plenty of hot water and Origins salt scrub. I need to read an Oprah magazine in bed at a time when I should be working. I need to devour a large cola Slurpee. I need to research the ideas that have kept me awake with excitement. I need to hear my favorite songs. I need a slice of pizza with feta cheese and fresh tomatoes. I need to be surrounded by friends and family. I need a hazelnut candle and Apple Martinis. I need to be enveloped by Fall. I need a grocery store birthday cake with thick, sickeningly sweet vanilla frosting. And, I need a walk in Duke Gardens at an hour when it’s silent except for the loud squawks of migratory geese.

 

It was everything I needed to restore my energy and soothe my soul. And it was how I spent my most relaxing day in years.

 

Now, sit back. Quiet your mind. Take a deep breath. And ask…

 

“What do I most need in this moment?”

 

About Author:

Jennifer Snyder, acclaimed life coach and workshop leader, women’s columnist, and tele-instructor has worked with almost 9,000 women across the United States. Her clients are separated and divorced women who cannot wait to proclaim their power. She is the author of a self-discovery workbook, The Time of Your Life: A Creative Sourcebook for Women. The Sourcebook can be ordered at www.timeofyourlifeafterdivorce.com.

 

Jennifer can be reached at 919/414-7197 or visit her Web site at www.timeofyourlifeafterdivorce.com.

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Top 8 Tips for Reducing Kids Screen Time This Summer

Reducing time spent in front of televisions and computers is one of the easiest ways to improve your family's health. Here are eight simple ways to limit screen time so you can help crank up your kids’ energy, re-charge their minds, and improve their health.

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What would you change?

Weekly Column, by Annette Bridges

Change -- some people dread it, and others can’t get enough. It may be much like the idiom, “One man’s trash is another man’s treasure.” When it comes to what we would alter or why we would make a modification, the answers vary because we all have different things we value, want, need and consider important.

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Being a Role Model

by Laurie Cesario-Overton

If I had to choose one sentence that would best describe what I feel parents need to learn, it would be this: Be your child's BEST ROLE MODEL in all the ways that truly count. Be your child's HERO. Whatever you do, do it for all the right reasons.

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3 Money Rules for Stay-at-Home Moms

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Here are three steps stay-at-home parents should take to better manage their own and the family’s finances.

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You May Have Too Much Debt But You Also Have Options

How Life Works

If you feel like you're in over your head with personal debt, you're not alone. Millions of Americans have become overextended, many as a result of easy credit and the recessions. Credit cards, medical bills, personal loans and raising interest rates do not make a good financial mix.

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Could fat babies mean fat toddlers?

A new study from Harvard Medical School found that babies who gained weight quickly had a sharply higher risk of obesity. The study followed close to 600 babies and found those in the top quarter of weight for their length at 6 months had a 40 percent higher risk of obesity by age 3 than smaller babies.

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Crystal Bowersox - A Single Mom And A Real American Idol

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5 Ways for Single Moms to Save Money

Single moms are always looking for ways to save money, and for good reason... It’s important to find ways to cut corners on the little things that perhaps you don’t think about too often, because those are usually where your biggest money drains are.

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Suze Orman's Recession Rescue Plan - helps you survive in times of financial crisis

OPRAH.com

Do you know what your family would do if you lost your job - or worse, your home? Financial expert Suze Orman is ready to help you devise a recession rescue plan to survive - and possibly thrive - during this deepening financial crisis...

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Your Just-in-Case Emergency Plan

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How to save $10,000

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If you were hoping for a list of small tweaks you could make in your spending to save $10,000 a year, sorry. The reality is that $10,000 is a lot of money. And saving big money usually means making big changes in the areas where we spend the most, such as: Housing, Transportation, Food.

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Mom's Obesity Raises Newborn's Heart Risk

from the National Institute of Health

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The 10-Ingredient Shopping Trip

By Tara Parker-Pope and Mark Bittman

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For those wondering why tween boys don’t read very much, the answer is that more books aren’t like this...

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