Why is it that we are so afraid to lose control? No wonder we are always stressed out. We work hard all day to stay on top of every single aspect of our lives. The kids, money, cleaning, drive here and there, appointments etc.… We have so much to fit into such a tight schedule and God forbid ... Read More »
Dating and Relationships with Kristy
Do you think that now you’re a single mom, you’ll never find love again? Are you struggling with balancing your dating life with your mom life? Or maybe you’re just now considering dating again. Whatever your reason for needing advice on dating and relationships, I’m here to help!
Many women have trouble finding a meaningful relationship once they become single mothers or they think it’s impossible and give up all together! As a single mother myself, I know how hard it can be to get back into loves playing field. I’ve dated a lot as a single mom and I’ve learned a lot! Armed with my newfound knowledge, I’ve changed my outlook and my game. Finding love is very possible for you! Not only that but it can be a lot of fun too.
This column can help you find love again. My articles relate to all the ups, downs and everything you never thought about when it comes to dating and being in relationships as a single mother. You’re a beautiful, strong and independent woman and the only one that can stop you from finding love is yourself. Read my articles and pretty soon, you’ll agree!
Send your dating and relationship questions to Ask Kristy – Relationship Advice for Single Moms
The biggest reason we fail at relationships is because we are afraid of being hurt. The specific reason isn’t important but the fear of being hurt and feeling pain and rejection is enough to keep us repeating the same scenario or avoid relationships all together. I know I used to struggle with this ... Read More »
A guy made me cry the other day for the first time in a long time! But the thing is, I wasn’t crying over him. I was crying because I made a MAJOR breakthrough and he just happened to be the last straw that broke me so to speak. Let me tell you the quick version of the story. So I met this guy ... Read More »
The sun was just coming up and dark clouds still hung in the sky. Emma stopped just before the wooden dock. This was her last journey down the dock in her wheelchair. She could feel him close by just as she did every morning, the creature that saved her. But what if he didn’t save her this time? ... Read More »
What do you do when your children don’t like the guy you’re seeing? Do you tell them to suck it up and get over it or do you regretfully break up with the guy? It’s a sticky situation but a common one and I get asked about it all the time which is why I’m writing this. As a mother we ... Read More »
Do you ever attribute your dating issues to your own faults? Do you sit around and ask yourself and your friends over and over “What’s wrong with me”?, and then narrow it down to something like you’re too picky, you’re too untrusting, you’ve been hurt too much or you’re too fat or some other ... Read More »
No matter how you look at it, it’s natural to feel bad after being “rejected”. Especially if it’s someone you really like. The most important thing though is to realize that the discord you feel is only temporary and you are the one who gets to decide just how much it affects you. There’s the easy ... Read More »
We always say that life is hard. We hear it all the time. I used to feel like I was tip toeing around broken glass afraid of making the wrong decisions and screwing up my life. It was so hard always trying to figure out what was right and what was wrong. And actually, I spent so much time trying to ... Read More »
Do you ever feel like you’re constantly chasing a “good enough life”? Like your life isn’t good enough right now? It’s like we’re always chasing something better and no matter what, there’s always more to be had. Especially as single parents, we feel like we have to make up in some way for not ... Read More »
Do you know how wonderful you are? Seriously! Do you know how wonderful your life is? If you don’t then you need to change your beliefs. Our beliefs influence so much of our ability to be happy. You can’t be happy if you believe your life sucks. The good thing is that your happiness is made up by ... Read More »