Laurie's Column


Read Laurie's wonderful and touching stories of parenting, friendship and faith. Laurie's parenting advice is profound and valuable.

Look, Listen, then Follow your Heart

Look, Listen, then Follow your Heart

My family came up to visit for Mother's Day.  I took my grand-children to our local park. They were having a great time climbing rope ladders, playing on all the curvy slides, and digging in the sand. I packed a picnic lunch and brought extra water … Read More »

The Surprise Gift

The Surprise Gift

Those who read my articles know that I am a proud grandmother. Together my husband and I have seven grandchildren, with a new bundle on the way. My youngest daughter is pregnant!She has been working on Cruise Ships for the past few years, as the … Read More »

Spiritual Strength

Spiritual Strength

There's an expression: "the calm before the storm," it can refer to a weather condition, a difficult time, or a situation that may get worse. When I was a young girl, I heard this from my father. The first time he said those words, I really thought … Read More »

Going Back to Work

Going Back to Work

My daughter has gone back to work after having her second baby. She was a wreck. She wept and told me she wished she could be home with her girls. "You got the chance to raise us and be home, and that's what I want too." As mothers do, I hugged her … Read More »

The Red Balloon

The Red Balloon

Recently I was telling my 3 year old grand-daughters a story about a lady bug. I told them, ... "Once upon a time, there was this little lady bug walking around on the ground. She looked up in the sky and saw the most beautiful, giant, red balloon. … Read More »

Wishful Thinking

Wishful Thinking

I want to be a good person. I don't need a lot of money. I don't need to be the center of attention. I don't need to be a version of what others think I should be. I just want to be me. I have loved being a mother.  I want to be a good role model, … Read More »

When Things Go Right

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I know, it's rare, but you know what? It does happen, every now and then. I was visiting my daughter who just had her second baby. A friend of hers stopped by and we got to talking about parenting. She was in her late twenties, married, with one … Read More »

The Fireworks Business

Fireworks

I was lucky to have raised my children, back in the days where families shared fireworks, and block parties. We lived in a cul-de-sac. Every 4th of July family and neighbors pitched in and bought fireworks. Back when I was married, we splurged on … Read More »

Be The Caterpillar… Not the Butterfly

Caterpillar

Taking a walk around my daughters backyard the other day I couldn't help noticing all the caterpillars on a passion fruit vine. As I was holding my two and a half year old grand-daughter she said, "Gramma, that's a "yugly" bug. I put her down and … Read More »

A Mother’s Gift

Happy Mother Day

It isn't in the way we dress or how we look. It isn't the car we drive or the things we have. It isn't the size of our home or the money in our bank account that defines a good parent, a mother.It is just you. It is the time you make for your … Read More »

Payback

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You don't always see the results of how you raise your children until they are much older. Oh sure, you might see the child who is kind, shares well with others, has a good heart for the less fortunate, but the true person they will grow into emerges … Read More »

My Christmas Pajamas

Merry Christmas

When I was a young girl, I remember how excited I was for Christmas to come. Oh sure there was the yummy cookies and desserts we got to bake, and eat. I remember how good it felt to decorate the house and light our candles. My parents played … Read More »

The Fall Leaves

If you haven't taken a walk with your kids yet, now is the time. Make it a regular "thing to do." It's amazing what a walk can do for everyone. If you are fortunate enough to live where the trees leaves change color during this time of year, then … Read More »

Troubled Days

When I read the newspaper or catch the news about the economic situation, it saddens me to know single mother's are hurting so badly. Not enough money to buy groceries, and if there is, maybe there aren't enough fruits and vegetables in your basket, … Read More »

Two Wrongs are Never Right

You know how it feels when someone has hurt your feelings? When somebody close to you has been mean spirited? It hurts bad. Sometimes you want to get back at them, either by gossip or directly by hurting them back. Woman can be harder on one another … Read More »

The Young Woman

When I was younger, I couldn't wait to be a mom. I would imagine cuddling my baby and would dream about my future. It was filled with images of love, tenderness and warmth. It was a dream I couldn't wait to fulfill. Then it happened. I was a mother … Read More »

The Homeless Philosopher

I was watching a show the other night and it was a documentary on the homeless. I don't know about all of you, but I couldn't help but be inspired by their courage. Maybe some of you are facing this situation in your life. If you are, take note: You … Read More »

The Saturday Chore List

When my children were younger, around 5 and 6 years old, I started writing a chore list. With five young children, I knew it was important to teach them all, the value of responsibility. Of course when they were 1 and 1/2 and 2 years old, I taught … Read More »

Library Time

In my childhood going to the library was a very big deal. We had books at home, but nothing like my collection is today. For my own children, before they got hooked on computers, the Library still played a significant role in their lives. For school … Read More »

Mothers In Need

How well do we understand how our fellow person is coping with their life? Are we available for a conversation? Do we go out of our way to ask? It's a very simple thing to do. Just start with, "how are you doing lately?" Your compassion and concern … Read More »

About The Author:
Laurie Cesario-Overton was born and raised in California. She was happily married for many years to a good man, but unfortunately, he was diagnosed with Manic/Depression. They tried counseling, Marriage Encounter and sought guidance from their church, however his health issues became a greater concern and grew into a much bigger problem.

She was a stay at home mother of five, and to supplement their income she took care of several neighborhood children. When her marriage ended, a friend suggested she get Licensed for Family Home Daycare, to add a more professional stamp to her home-based business. It was the best decision for her family at that time.

They did not have much, and faced many struggles and hardships. Even through her most difficult times, she has always said," It is a Gift and an Honor to be their mother." She has been in the business of caring for children for over twenty-five years.

Many families have asked Laurie to write about her experiences and tips on parenting. Due to complications recovering from surgery, she was unable to return to the work she has loved all her life.

In 2007, she remarried a wonderful man and now lives in Nevada. She decided to write her first book titled, "Home Daycare and Practical Parenting". She has begun working on her second book about mental illness and hopes to shed some light on how families are affected. Her children are all grown and now some of them are raising their own babies. She considers herself to be a very lucky mom, with many blessings.

Laurie's book
The author has over 25 years of experience in caring for children. She worked from home as a Licensed Family Home Daycare Provider, and raised a family of five, for 14 years, as a single mom. This book will cover a wide range of issues related to Home Daycare from a Provider's perspective and gives valuable information to new parent's and families as well.

Laurie maintains two websites:

» Homedaycare4You.com - This site is for both Providers and Parents seeking information about Family Home Daycare. Whether you are interested in becoming a childcare provider or you are searching for a smaller, more personal family-environment, you will find valuable information here.

» ParentsTalking.com - A journal blogging site of: Shared stories, Family Life, Raising children and Finding Yourself. Feelings about Sisterhood, Motherhood, and Friendships along the way. Letters describing what it felt like becoming a Grandmother to getting Remarried in your 50's. A little Something for Everyone.